The Beginning of the End for Christmas Cards?

It’s not only the Grinches out there who are saying no to the holiday card tradition.

The arguments that paper cards are wasteful, impersonal, and bad for the environment seem to be hitting home during our tough economic times, and you may see the results (or lack thereof) in your mailbox. A Chicago Tribune columnist notes that thus far into the holiday season, her card intake has fallen off steeply, and she wonders if the end for Christmas cards is near.

Why fewer cards? For businesses, deciding not to send cards is an easy way to save on expenses during a down economy:

A Chicago hair salon owner says this is the first year she hasn’t sent holiday greetings to the clientele. Two thousand greetings at 44 postage cents a pop? Not in a recession.

For some people, going card-free is a way of going green. Paper is litter, clutter.

People who grew up with e-mail have another excuse.

Yes, the e-card is mentioned frequently as a free alternative to ye olde Christmas card. Their “selling” points, from a BankRate post:

They’re free, don’t require postage and no one has to wash their hands after opening them. Some even play music, making them a fun, free way to catch up with far-flung friends and family.

I don’t really think this qualifies as “catching up.” But hey, people who send e-cards probably put as much thought into the process as people sending out traditional paper cards—and it’s the thought that counts, of course.

If you’re not into the e-thing and still feel the need for paper, RecessionWire and BetterBudgeting suggest postcards as a less expensive alternative to the full-postage-stamp-requiring envelope, but that’s a tip that’s strictly about saving money, not putting more meaning into your correspondences.

I ran across some interesting advice regarding Christmas cards and gift giving that emerged in the U.K. last holiday season: Dr. Stephen Cottrell, a bishop in the Church of England and the author of Do Nothing: Christmas Is Coming, recommended that you send cards out only to people you love. Yes, love. Not like. Not that you sorta know and feel obligated to send a card to, and what the heck. If you have to take a moment to think if a person belongs on your “love” list, then you have your answer: No card for you.

Also, he said that writing “must see you this year” on a Christmas card is wrong unless you really mean it. The bishop even said that people should (get this!) relax during the holiday season, rather than frantically be out shopping and organizing parties. Mostly, you’re supposed to just hang out and enjoy the holidays, be something of a slug and take the time to be with the people you love.

He’s not completely against gifts, but has a suggestion that’s dramatically scaled back from the status quo:

“Give everyone the same thing. Choose one book that you love and give everyone a copy. Instead of spending a fortune at the shops – let alone the time and hassle – make everyone a jar of marmalade, or pickle some onions.”

Hmmm… I suppose if you’re only giving to folks you truly love, then you’d know if they’re the type who would enjoy pickled onions.

Anyway, there you go. I think I’m convincing myself that Christmas cards are a waste of time and money. Too often, they’re a disingenuous, impersonal substitute for regularly keeping in touch and celebrating with the people you care about.

I’m putting our cards in the mail this week.

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  • http://whatchannelareyouwatching.com Stephen Fofanoff

    Too funny, I posted about this on my blog over the weekend. http://www.whatchannelareyouwatching.com/archives/446

    I agree with sending cards out to the people you love, but I think it’s time for us human beings to try to make some human connections (face-to-face) again.

  • deconstructiva

    No pickled onions to loved ones this year? For Twilight fans, how about giving fresh cloves of garlic to ward off vampires?

  • http://www.areasontowrite.com areason2write

    I also blogged about this same subject http://areason2write.wordpress.com/?s=hallmark

    We all spend a lot of time and money are cards – and I love getting them – but there are better outlets for our resources….

  • pondering4cat

    Here is one beautiful animated ecard for Christmas. It is free. The quality is amazing. You can send to 50 people at time.

    http://www.ojolie.com/index.php?ec_id=29

  • http://pondering4cat.wordpress.com pondering4cat

    I don’t agree that only paper cards are appropriate for greetings. It is the quality of the ecards that result in the bias against ecards. The beautiful ecards from sites such as http://www.jacquielawson.comand http://www.ojolie.com are good choices for sending greetings when you want to reduce waste. Sending paper cards is bad for the environment. It is more than the actual paper. It is the energy involved in making the paper, delivering to the stores, buying the cards, and sending the cards. So even sending recycled paper cards are not great either. Yes, it is just a card. But all the cards sending during the holiday add up.

  • http://whatchannelareyouwatching.com Stephen Fofanoff

    @pondering: I agree. Those cards are beautiful, and sending them says much more about the thought behind the greeting. There’s also a new e-vite site I saw (don’t remember the name) that featured beautiful “paper-like” e-invitations. The ability to send high quality e-greetings means that the method we choose to send our greetings doesn’t have to sacrifice the meaning and thought behind it. Thanks for sharing those links.

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  • chansen

    I just posted this comment on a similar article (that referenced this one) on Social Media Insider (http://www.mediapost.com/publications/?fa=Articles.showArticle&art_aid=119262#comments), so pardon me if this is not specific to this article, but the thought is in the same vein:

    This is truly a sad indicator of the times, but I can’t say that I’m surprised and I can’t even say that I blame you. I have never been good at sending Christmas cards, but I can tell you that I definitely enjoy receiving them.

    This post is very much from the perspective of the lazy, social media entrenched professional who probably doesn’t have much time to deal with Christmas cards. And I can say that my response is from someone who is equally as lazy and entrenched in social media marketing, but is invested both in social media and in the greeting card industry (shameless plug: check out http://www.rossettidesigns.com/holiday.html). And here’s where I think anyone who opts for an “ecard” or social network greeting instead of something tangible is missing the boat:

    When was the last time you shared an ecard with a friend? Can you put your ecard or social network greeting on the mantel? Maybe you don’t have a mantel (or any friends) so it doesn’t matter to you, but there is something to be said for tradition and there’s something to be said for tangible things like greeting cards during the holidays.

    Are our Christmas card traditions contributing to the destruction of rain forests? I don’t think so; not compared to other uses of paper. Especially when many small card companies like ours are trying to be environmentally responsible and printing on FSC post-consumer recycled paper.

    And in the case of our company, you’d be hard pressed to find e-greetings with colorful, warm original art by an artist who feels strongly about her designs.

    So keep on embracing the traditional greeting card, I say. Paper cards last longer and help us stay connected in ways that electronic greetings cannot.

    Embrace email and social media marketing when ROI and measurement matter most. But when communicating heartfelt greetings to family and friends during the holidays, don’t contribute to the erosion of time-honored traditions.

    For where are we when all our traditions are lost? No where, and truly lost as a society, I would have to say. And ask your self: what kind of greeting would your mother prefer to receive?

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  • http://whatchannelareyouwatching.com Stephen Fofanoff

    @chansen i couldn’t have said it better myself

  • chansen

    Thanks, Stephen! And it’s @twistoflime and @rossettidesigns if you’re interested in following.

    Happy Holidays!

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